Wedding Inquiry Form

General Info

Are you...

Groom's Information

Sacraments Received:
How often do you got to Sunday Mass?
Have you been married civilly?
Include within or outside of the Catholic Church
Have you had children previously?
Have you been married within the Church previously?

Brides's Information

Sacraments Received:
How often do you got to Sunday Mass?
Have you been married civilly?
Include within or outside of the Catholic Church
Have you had children previously?
Have you been married within the Church previously?

Final Notes:

Please Read and Check Off

Dress Code/Wedding party—Bride and bridesmaids’ dresses must be of a modest cut (no sleeveless, no bare shoulders, no strapless dresses and no cleavage, no miniskirts, etc.). Shawls are permitted as long as they are not transparent. Groom & groomsman must wear formal dress attire (no jeans, saggy pants, no sandals, etc.). Formal dress shoes are required, no sandals nor tennis shoes allowed. The day of the rehearsal, dress code is upscale casual (no jeans, shorts, flip-flops, sleeveless clothing, etc.); rehearsal could be cancelled if this is not followed.
Pending Sacraments—If bride or groom have a sacrament pending (First Communion and/or Confirmation), it is their responsibility to find a program to receive the sacrament(s) before or on the day of the wedding. Failing to do so may delay, postpone or cancel the ceremony.
The couple may reserve their wedding date ($200 non-refundable deposit required) bound to comply and follow the requirements and guidelines of our parish; you may change/move the day up to one time within six months from the original date. We reserve the right to cancel, modify, postpone or deny the celebration of the Sacrament of Marriage at any time if any of the requirements or guidelines are not fulfilled. We reserve the right to delay or cancel the ceremony if the outcome of the FOCCUS assessment tool and/or if the priest, deacon and/or minister considers that the couple is not ready to celebrate the Sacrament of Marriage. It is the responsibility of the couple to make sure all requirements are met prior to their wedding celebration.

By signing this document, you acknowledge you have received the booklet with all of the instructions (requirements and guidelines) and accept to comply with them (even if forgot to write your initials on this form); this includes the awareness that Our lady of Sorrows will not be held liable, civilly, financially, for the emotional distress caused by the cancelation/modification of your ceremony.

By signing this document, you state that all the information you provided is true. If the wedding is being held in another parish or diocese, the requirements are the same. Most of our ceremonies are presided by a priest; however, a deacon might become the presider in the absence of a priest without previous notice.

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